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TOPIC: I'm new he's not IDK what to do
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PurpleKilt777
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ey! Sorry I just don't know what to do. My boyfriend is into almost everything that is possible here. I'm not and I have made that abundantly clear since our relationship began 2 months ago. I have been a single in a 3 some many years ago with a married couple. He thinks it is because I had a bad experience with that and that isn't true. I can't do it as a couple, by myself I don't have to worry about anyone. love him and I think our sex life is amazing. He says I'm Vanilla because I don't own sex toys and have never been in an adult store. I've explained to him multiple times that I couldn't do it with a boyfriend. I'm a people pleaser and I know if he keeps on being persistent about it that I will give in. I've told him that but it would change our relationship. I wouldn't love him or feel that he loves me anymore. It would be the beginning of the end of our relationship. I don't have much confidence so my insecurities would eat at me like what I'm not enough for him? For example.
From the very beginning of our relationship I voiced this. That he would get bored with me. I gave him an out in the beginning because honestly I can't take being heartbroken again. I've given in to almost every one of his in bedroom requests hoping that would be enough. Is there something wrong with me? He says there needs to be rules. My rules would be nobody touches him or I. He said today he hopes eventually I will change my mind. I said and I told you I will but that would be the end of us. Any advice
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TOPIC: I'm new he's not IDK what to do
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